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Fragility but not weakness

Pietro Tersigni

"Wakey wakey!"

That was our cheerful (and slightly evil) wake-up mantra at 6 AM sharp this morning. Safe to say, waking teenagers up at that hour definitely shocked their systems! But after fueling up on another glorious spread of avocados, eggs, yogurt, cereals, and toast, everyone was bright-eyed and energized for a truly extraordinary day.

Today wasn't about construction or deep-cleaning. Today was about giving a priceless gift to our abuelitos.

For the residents of the care home, life is mostly confined to the same four walls, day after day, month after month. For many, this home is where they will spend the final chapter of their lives.

So, we decided to change their reality for a day. We organized a special excursion to a beautiful countryside estate (finka) in La Joya, about an hour and a half outside Arequipa, giving them fresh air, warm sunshine, and a change of scenery they rarely get to experience.

When we arrived at the care home early this morning, the energy in the air was electric. The elderly residents were buzzing with excitement! The patio was packed with rows of wheelchairs, while those who could still walk were waiting with open arms to hug our volunteers.

Getting dozens of elderly individuals, many with severe mobility issues, onto a bus is no small logistical task, but your kids handled it like absolutely well: the girls worked in pairs, offering patient, steady shoulders to guide the walking residents up the steps, step by careful step; the boys rolled up their sleeves for the real muscle work. Working in teams of two, with immense strength, delicacy, and patience, they physically lifted each wheelchair bound resident onto the bus.

It was slow, rigorous work where safety was everything. Your teenagers understood the gravity of what they were doing, and they executed it with care and tenderness.

When we arrived at the estate after a 90-minute ride, the kids executed the unload process like a well oiled machine. As each resident was lifted down, the team cheered their names from the bus "Josephaaaaa!" "Gregoriooooo!" so the ground team could have their wheelchairs waiting with a warm welcome.

Once settled, the boys immediately sprinted off to play a match of football on the lush green grass (though watching them gasp for air at this altitude was quite entertaining!). The girls gathered in the shade for chats with the residents, while others took the abueloson peaceful strolls around the scenic property.

For lunch, we enjoyed a classic Peruvian spread of chicken, rice, and vegetables. The kids ate in shifts so that someone was always sitting beside an elderly resident, patiently spoon feeding them and sharing smiles.

Then came the unexpected highlight: a tractor appeared!

Like excited children, our volunteers dragging a few adventurous elders along with them, ran over to hop on the back for a bumpy, hilarious tour of the estate grounds!

By 2:00 PM, tension began to rise for a completely different reason: it was World Cup Final time! With a mix of Spanish girls and Argentina supporters in our group, football rivalries were at an all-time high.

However, just 10 minutes into the match, nature intervened. Being right next to the desert, strong winds picked up, blowing thick dust through the air. Knowing that many of our abuelitos suffer from delicate respiratory conditions, we had to make a tough call for their safety: pack up immediately and head back to Arequipa.

Here is what made us so proud: there wasn't a single sigh, Complaint, or roll of the eyes.

Our volunteers instantly recognized that this day wasn't about them or a football match; it was entirely about the comfort and safety of these vulnerable human beings. Without hesitation, everyone jumped into action, pairing up to load the bus all over again.

On the ride back, a group huddled at the back of the bus trying to stream the match on a single smartphone. Unfortunately, Peruvian mountain reception had other plans, the signal cut out constantly, and by some hilarious stroke of bad luck, the only 30 minutes of crystal clear connection was during the Halftime Show!

By the time we pulled back up to the care home, the game had gone into extra time. Yet, the kids put their phones away and immediately went to work safely escorting every single resident back to their rooms.

The day finally concluded right outside the gates of the care home, with our Spanish girls screaming, cheering, and dancing in the streets as Spain sealed their historic World Cup victory!

After returning to our retreat house for well deserved showers and a quick briefing, we gathered to attend Mass together.

Today was a physically demanding day, but more than that, it was a profound lesson in the fragility of human life.

At 16, teenagers often feel invincible. Their bodies are strong, their futures are endless, and life moves at a breakneck speed. But today, they held life's fragility directly in their hands. They lifted bodies that could no longer support themselves, listened to voices that were fading, and looked into eyes that have seen an entire century go by.

They saw how fleeting youth is, how precious health can be, and how, at the end of our lives, all that truly remains is the dignity and love we give to one another. Being responsible for someone else's fragile life, even for just a few hours, changes a young person forever. It forces them to soften, to slow down, and to lead with empathy.

Your kids handled that weight today with grace, maturity, and boundless love.